One of my clients (a multi-millionaire in the 1990s) invited me to a success group. I didn't feel very successful at the time because I equated money with success - and was starting building my practice as an alternate healer ect.. It dawned on me that I was very happy in my work and money was a side issue. As soon as I decided that, I quit my sort of regular job in '95 and have felt successful in the work itself and the money ebbs and flows around it. Probably just lucky, I guess.
I had to reverse-engineer my work-life philosophy from work really hard to work less and reap rewards (like money and other assets) easily.