To call an experience good or bad - is this not a judgement? What about the rainbow of possibilities between good and bad/ right or wrong/yes or no?

PS I live my life as a spiritual magus (some call this warrior) by the way of challenging life experiences thus making light as I go. Making light through the friction of the opposite extremes "yes" and "no". The friction creates energy/light/love which can be stored for future work or expended in the moment.